Slowly, it Evolves…Victims Can No Longer Isolate Themselves.

I was very reclusive in my youth. I joked around about drinking and partying and such, in the fashion of Cheech and Chong.  I discovered after a while that I was merely trying to “fit in”.  I have since discovered that I don’t have to fit in to any particular niche.  I am who I am. People can accept me or not accept me, but there are two things about me that never change over time. I am honest.  I speak my mind.  Not many people can handle that trait.  It comes from having been through a lot of hell, much I do not really discuss, but when I hear people talk as if their pain is the only one that matters, I can come unglued. 

There are different types of suffering and abuse in this world.  I know it from a place no one should ever have had to experience it–at home.  I am currently writing a book on this, but for those of you who follow my bullying blogs, I don’t see how we can possibly stop bullying or get anything productive done in society by  isolating ourselves from one another.  The pain of the homosexual child being bullied is every bit as real and intense as the child who gets beaten, raped and abused at home–only to come to school to suffer the taunts of those bullies (and sometimes get assaulted even further). 

Here is the point of my post.  Anyone who has ever been bullied has experienced their own type of prison.  That prison was the closest thing to Hell on Earth for many people.  However, as intense as our pain is, we must unite with others who have been bullied and abused to make our voices heard as one voice.  If not, we are failing every generation that follows.   It does not matter if one is homosexual or not, or if one is from another country or not.  What matters is that a united front stands a better chance of accomplishing anything than a divided front.   We are failing our children if we do not address this as one voice, one people and one nation.

I am no activist and do not wish to be so now.  However there is/are voice(s) out there that people  will hear.  You voice might prevent the next Jonesboro.  Your voice might prevent the next Columbine.  Your voice might stop the next child from taking matters into his or her own hands to address his/her abusers and ruin the rest of his/her life.

Where are you?  This country needs you to get together and speak up.  The children are depending on you.  Forget the news networks.  None of them talk much about this until something major happens!  It is time to be proactive and not reactive.  You do not have to have a child in public school to ask a school board what is being done to stop school violence and make them answer.  People around the world must unite to stop bullying on a global scale as well.  

It is time to quit comparing battle scars with each other (and with other groups and unite).   My pain is no less or more intense than yours even if it is a different situation. Being separate does not solve anything.  You will get told what you “want to hear” and then nothing will come of it, but if people who have been severely abused and bullied were to rally together–someone would listen and take notice.

I am going through a healing process myself–even after all these years. I am starting to see some things differently, yet some things are unchanged.  I suppose we will all be evolving and changing throughout life.  Give me time. I am getting there and so will you.  We can work on this together,  can we not?  I do not feel that isolating ourselves as groups from one another is an option any longer.

The Mountain Embraced Me Today!

Yes! You heard it here! I got to walk my mountain today for the first time in a very long time!  My spirit was joyous with every step on my 2.25 mile trek, and I got to see a few finches and sparrows!  They seem to hang around.  I didn’t get to see any cardinals or blue jays, but I once again heard the all familiar rustle of the mesquite beans as the wind brushed them with its warm fingers and then went through the grass.  It was a great symphony of sounds and silence!  I love it when I can just go up there, enjoy the sunshine and listen to everything. 

I feel so alive when I come home from the mountain because the peace it gives me is perfect. I feel as though I am experiencing an embrace, as if I had a strong shoulder to lean on and share things with.  That is the only analogy I can come up with to describe it. I have left an entire life of negativity behind me, and discovered the person I would like to be in that process.  Learning not to depend on others for my identity is a terrific thing.  I can stand alone, yet know I am not because others reciprocate that beautiful flow of energy.  When that mountain embraces me as it did today,  I realize that I am one with it and it with me, and even God has made it that way as far as I am concerned.  It is my duty to help others as I am able.   Now I do still get into the occasional political debate, but it does not change who I am even for a second. 

As I walked, I noticed that nothing is blooming yet, but I did crawl out of my hole and I saw my shadow.  Then I realized a few things on that mountain.  Sometimes birds signal that protection is there…While I was at my mother’s house last week, I saw a blue jay.  Then I saw another one.  I didn’t know why but I felt that everything would be alright and felt a peace about coming back home again.  I found out today that in a lot of Native American tribes, the blue jay being present is a sign of  protection.  My mother always feeds the birds.  In turn, they give her peace of mind, I think.  They definitely gave me that.

There are days on which I wonder what my purpose really is.  I think we all do that.  I feel that mine is to find ways to help others find their own peace.  There are so many good people in the world  who cannot see the good within themselves because they carry guilt around about past mistakes and such.  It took me many years to understand that today is the only thing over which we have some dominion or control.  Many times  as we focus on this present, the past likes to throw up the darkened shadows of our past into our faces.  This dark shadow, or spirit, likes to tell us “You do not deserve this or that!” and all to often, we are dumb enough to listen to that voice.

When the time is right, what you really need will return to you in some fashion because of your own good spirit.   It may be a simple matter of the idea that someone needs someone who not only loves the good qualities about him or her, but who actually believes in the magic he or she can produce.  Everyone can create their own type of magic.  It may come in the form of the kind word during a time of loss, or the lifting of your brother’s spirit when he has lost his faith in himself.  Sometimes all that brother needs to know is that one person believes in what he can do, and then he can see the light at the end of a tunnel.  A kind word can go such a long way toward this.  Many people turn to drink, saying they enjoy it, but it is really the escape from the dark shadow that is lurking behind that they are trying to avoid. 

Light will kill darkness every time.  Most of the time, if one really listens, his (or her) footsteps move toward that person, or those people who come their way in order  to lift their spirits so that they can carry on.  A person who really loves and cares about that person will be the one staying sober to drive this brother (or sister) home when partakes too much of the booze.  In time, as the love grows, he may not need to lean toward that dark shadow as much.  It will kick up worse for a while and try to hang onto him out of fear, but when the light of the person meant to be there is at its zenith, the darkness has to go back and the person can reach out in faith for help.

As the wind embraced me and the sunlight planted its kiss upon my forehead, I discovered that as I have healed, I can use this for others.  I am not able to cook really well, but I can provide a strong shoulder to lean on and let a person know why I feel as I do.  In other words, I can be that friend people really need.  That way I am paying respect to the mountain that never fails to embrace me and to teach me all that I need to know about this life, and those who will come into my path to enrich it.   If I can give them just that wee bit of light to get them through the day,  then that is the best thing that I could ask for, isn’t it?

I truly hope that all of you have a wonderful week!  Don’t forget to tell your loved ones that they are loved, and do not forget to spend time with the child(ren).  It is your light that might just enable them to follow a right and just path in life.  When we are old, only then we see how these life lessons have helped them.  The only important thing we need to remember is that we may not see why it is important to be good right away because if everything is in a circle, like the seasons, love, life cycles, etc…Then whatever you give will ripple outward like the rings of water produced by a stone being skipped across the pond or thrown into it.  It just depends on how wide a scale your one-act can reach.  Either way, others are somehow touched by that energy (I think) and then it just radiates toward the people intended–only to return later like a boomerang, but much more smoothly (and gently)! Good night all, and Happy Valentines Day!

Entitlement…Where Do We Draw the Line as a Nation?

Did anyone think I was going to talk about Egypt, the radicalism in Islam or some crud in general?  No…This is going to be relatively  simple.  The state of the world has nothing to do with political movements or individual acts of violence or moral turpitude.  It has more to do with the state of the hearts of man.  In general, mankind has embraced a mentality that we are entitled to be “taken care of”.  Pardon me…I thought are all supposed to work and pull our own weight for the simple fact that if we let anyone else “take care of us” like our government “nanny” proposes, then the servant becomes the master over us.  I covet no man’s fortune that he made or any woman hers. I can take care of myself and don’t expect to be taken care of.  I am part Native American and Irish/German and I do not believe even for one minute that because my ancestors suffered, that I should receive someone else’s hard-earned dime.  That is a shameful mentality that spits on the graves of those who did suffer since this generation does not even begin to comprehend their suffering.  It wasn’t their blood that was shed by the crack of a whip or the bullet of a gun.  It was not them who got raped and beaten for wanting to learn to read.  It was not them who had to endure having their families ripped apart because they were sold to the highest bidder either.  My Native ancestors suffered long before any other continent sent their people over here.

If you want to come down to the brass tacks of this matter, then it is only the female that should get any compensation from the world…Why not? They’ve been screwed over since time began, right?  However given that I am part Native American, Irish/German and Pennsylvania Dutch (according to my grandmother), NOBODY should be getting reparations unless I get a five way cut–because of the fact that I am female!  However, let’s get off of the subject of ME. This isn’t about me…

Remember this song?  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Ni_c0IMP-c  “Everybody Wants to Rule the World”…It’s true.

We are seeing it–along with various groups who think they are the ones that should lead the way.  We have the Communists, who are totally out of touch with reality.  We have radical religious groups saying that they will come from their OWN countries and fly their own flag on the White House…Then we have those groups who say they will take land from this nation without firing a shot.  None of these groups have vision.  They cannot make decisions that are best for all when they are only centered on themselves and trying to sell America a “package” that they say is a privilege when in fact it is outright oppression.  What vision they do have is an unrealistic one, based on some idea that they think Americans will just lay down and allow itself to be raped again and again.

Things will change in 2012.  There is a group in control now that believes it is entitled to dictate what is best for every man, woman and child in this country.  They have, in essence started to behave more like monarchs and less like the public servants they were elected to be.  The people have now seen this and are disenchanted with them.   These “servants”–and that is what they are–they work for the PEOPLE and will find that out soon enough.  We as a nation know that they are no “Camelot” and that the last good vestige of hope died with Bobby Kennedy in 1968. 

They also know that many are taking direction and money from one foreigner–by the last name of Soros.  He is the puppet master.  It is time to let these servants know that in 2012, their puppet master will be put on a leash and brought down a few notches into reality.  There are a few key players that should be charged with treason and sedition–not all of whom I will name here, but Soros is one, Chouderay is another.  Both of these men are dangerous to mankind as we know it to be.  They both seek to control the people and deny them the basic rights that our ancestors fought and died for.

Both of those men are of the thought train that they know what is best for the world, and it is the propagators of all of this New World Order crap that are allowing both to run amok and spread anger and discontent.  They know they can’t accomplish all they want on this continent, so now they are focusing on their homelands–and they want to destroy Israel.

Let them try it.  Israel has more than enough weapons to take care of that issue, I’m sure. 

Pardon me, but I think that I know what is best for me.  I will not go back to being chattel, and I certainly will never submit to orders to wear certain attire in this country.  I will not give up my right to vote and be with whomever I please to satisfy the demands of a maddened zealot either.  I want nothing from that entity and that entity has no right to want anything of me or my people–my America. It is time to wake up America.  It is time to fire these people who want to put you and your children on a collar with a leash.  It is time to take back our country, take back our educational system and take back our lives. 

Let me be clear on the education issue.  Foreign Languages and classes on any religions should be ELECTIVES–not mandatory subjects.  Teachers should be teaching students in the fields that they have their specialties in.  If they teach English Literature, they should only be teaching that area–not math, science and such.  They should not have to write separate lesson plans for students that they are not properly trained to deal with either.  If a teacher is only certified to teach English and Social Studies and has no special education training, they should NOT be teaching special ed. students in their classrooms.  This system has become deplorable because there are instances where a teacher is having to write 5 sets of lesson plans per class period.  Why? Because they have to work with all five special needs groups in a regular classroom.  Why?  Entitlement…IDEA has been twisted so now that any student–even those who are higher level are now in a classroom with children who are often disruptive and lower level. I am not talking about learning disabled (LD)–I”m referring to emotionally disturbed (ED). 

On a typical day 4 groups of students will be working on worksheets or other activities while the home room teacher has to take a small group of special needs students and work with them as a group in the back of the classroom.  How is that not segregating?  It has to be done anyway to give each group time, but these teachers should not have to pull a Penn and Teller stunt to be able to teach an entire classroom.  CEO’s and administrators who have little experience with the classroom environment are looking for ways to trim the budgets and cut costs so they unfairly burden less qualified teachers to be all things to all groups.

IDEA has to be revamped.  There is no way around this. What started off as a novel idea does not work anymore. It originated from “entitlement” but there is no way that a single teacher nowadays can be a messianic figure to a group of students. Classes need to be smaller and manageable so that the students can get a real education.  IF this means that the least restrictive environment is a separate classroom for core subjects, with these students getting their socialization during lunch, PE, choir, etc…Then so be it.  There is no reason to put a physically disabled student in a separate classroom if he or she is able to do the work.  However, that teacher should not be expected to handle J-Tubes and Body fluids from diapers and such.   That is what either nurse’s aides or certified personnel are for.  This budget cutting makes it impossible to hire  more teachers and qualified aides, and this  is what is causing the problems in education.

In a classroom environment within corrections, there is no distinction.  If an ED person acts up, they are kicked out of the class.  IF these offenders do not want to go to class and keep refusing–let them drop out but make them serve their entire sentence for refusing to complete their education.  Make it an automatic disqualifier for parole if they refuse GED classes and/or miss a test with no legitimate reason.   THEN they will start taking it seriously. 

Now back to public schools.  It is time to hold the administrators and boards to a higher standard.  Parents need to demand that the DOE and the NEA be disbanded because they DID create the monster that our tax dollars is now feeding.  They are no longer working to properly educate children, but are working to create division in the home and in the community.  Tax dollars are gobbled up by these two entities.  If they demand justification for my reasoning, look at the literacy scores in the US for the past 30 years.  They have gone down steadily since the NEA was allowed to lobby for crap that this country did not need or want put into place.  Look at the countless debates that the textbooks they endorse causes.  Look at the agendas that districts are trying to shove down parents’ throats because of all these entities which feel that they are “entitled” to tell you what is best for your own children.  Is THIS what you really want? 

As far as the recipients of welfare and unemployment, it is fine that you get that as long as you really need it, but to me if you aren’t trying to get a job, they should immediately cut you off when they check that mainframe computer and find that you really didn’t apply to x number of potential employers than you actually claimed.  In fact, you should be prosecuted for fraud if you did that, sorry.  As for welfare recipients, getting benefits should be tied to a debit card that will NOT allow the purchases of alcohol or tobacco.  Now it is true that the food stamp purchases single out non food items, but the welfare funds do not.  It is time to remedy this.  IF they cannot work, they shouldn’t be buying alcohol and tobacco with THOSE funds when they have children living at home .   I saw it almost every day when I worked in a retail business.  Given today’s prices, I say it is abuse of my dime to allow it.

In short, you are entitled to determine how the “public servants” spend and allocate your dime.  Why not take advantage of that and vote them out before they make things any worse?  It is time to draw a line in the sand and fight for what is best for this nation to stay alive–not cave in to what some people think that they are “entitled” to regardless of where they are in this country!  This nation has been bullied long enough by the politicians that have done nothing but proven how self-serving they are and have left border states to fend for themselves as much as they can.  That is something I will address later on.

Decision is made-Despite the Voices in my head!!!

I am going to resume Insanity workouts when I get back home.  I will order Brazil Butt Lift too!  Why not? I have nothing better to do with my time when I’m not at work…If you want to know anything about that, email me and/or friend me on FB.

Besides while I am waiting for the weather to get WONDERFUL again, that is if the Russians will quit playing with their bloody electromagnet so the ice will melt,  I can still find a place to go to get in touch with nature and such.  Cold weather really doesn’t stop me…Hold on! What do you mean it’s the Chinese playing with the electromagnet now?!  Why is it you want to blame China for everything from our political woes to not being able to buy anything Amer–what?!  What do you mean a lot of our clothes come from Pakistan, India or Viet-Nam?  Well, I’d rather buy from China than Pakistan…What’s that?  Only buy American?  Tell me where I can buy American made stuff that doesn’t have parts of it imported from–YOU GUESSED IT!  CHINA!

What?  What do you mean we have nothing made domestically anymore? I KNOW that’s a lie!  Wanna know how I know?  Because the soap I buy is home-made from Strawn, TX!  Yes!  There are still companies that make their own soaps, candles, jewelry and such domestically!  Now I need for you to quit popping in my head because you are NOT the voice of reason! You can google it and find the site–it’s the only soap co. in Strawn, TX.

Whew!  Isn’t it amazing how those thoughts can creep in?  Anyway, back to my original point–SHUT UP! I AM TIRED OF YOU POPPING UP IN MY HEAD NOW SHUT UP ALREADY!  There…Dealt with that voice in my brain…Anyway, where was I? Oh yes! Brazil Butt Lift and Insanity 2 a days…This should get very interesting huh?  I’ve been iced in too long and will head home today! 

I’m getting ready for the summer, baby!  Some beach…Somewhere…Is waiting for me to park my butt on an empty chair~!  Have a great day!

Womens’ Rights Under A Threat? They May Very Well Be…Please Read…

Before I go further into this, let me inform you that I am a Christian.  I will also inform you that I am an ANGRY Christian.  I will not apologize for that because all women right now face a threat to their own autonomy greater than has ever been faced since our Suffragette ancestors got us the right to vote. Susan B. Anthony and Elizabeth Cady Stanton are turning over in their graves, I’m sure. 

I have read some rather ridiculous stuff in the news lately, but this one really got me upset. WHY would anyone consider Sharia Law when it comes to sentencing for crimes? I am referring to the article in this link I will post here:

 http://atlasshrugs2000.typepad.com/atlas_shrugs/2011/01/plea-deal-for-muslim-dad-in-arizona-who-murdered-his-20-year-old-daughter-for-being-too-americanized.html?utm_source=twitterfeed&utm_medium=facebook

This man, who incidentally took an oath to be an AMERICAN citizen is now trying to claim that the cold-blooded murder of his 21-year-old daughter is an “honor killing”. Scrap the religious argument here for a minute. This guy SHOULD be considered an infidel for even TAKING an oath of citizenship–especially since our constitution is founded on the principles of Christianity.  Does that mean that the United States is a “Christian Nation”.  No.  However, Christianity involves free will–Islam does not.  THIS is what needs to be made clear.  Anyway, no Islamic nation should excuse this “oversight” on his part when he took an oath of citizenship either. If he were a true Muslim, he wouldn’t have taken the oath to defend our constitution. THAT is my opinion on that issue. That being said, as far as I am concerned, he is only seeking to escape the death penalty. That MIGHT fly in Iraq, where he is from, but he is in OUR country and is now being tried under OUR laws.  I am not in support of the death penalty, but I am also not in support of losing my right to voice that opinion either, and I don’t think the females who do support the death penalty want to lose their autonomy either.  That is the danger if judges start ruling in favor of such a system for ANYONE.  Mark my words, Sharia Law being used in this country will erode the rights of women and that cannot be allowed!

If he says his daughter was “too Americanized”, then what the heck did he expect to happen when he became an American himself? Hello! Is anyone out there listening to this question? When in ROME, as the cliché goes, you do as the Romans do. WHEN in America, you do as WE do–or don’t become a citizen. Simple? It should be…

Evidently the girl’s parents were not happy when she divorced a cousin she was forced to marry. HELLO AGAIN! We are in AMERICA. Divorce is LEGAL. Sharia Law is not applicable in this country! Are any judges reading this? She was also an “American”. WHO is defending her rights as a victim? Read the text messages she sent to her friend. Her father was a threat to her right to live the American dream. She was a threat to his macho “I am a god” authority, which is protected under the culture from which he CAME, but NOT here. OR is it?

I want everyone to think about some of the history of the United States for a few moments. HOW LONG have women had the right to vote, divorce, etc…? Not that long, right? Well, if you want to refresh your memory, check the following link:

Read more: Women’s Rights Movement in the U.S.: Timeline of Events (1848-1920) — Infoplease.com http://www.infoplease.com/spot/womenstimeline1.html#ixzz1AJ8jjzfz

As you can see, our female ancestors went through Hades to ensure the future generations that they also had certain inalienable rights that men had no right to take away–and it does not matter what religion they might be either. How does this tie into the case regarding THE plea bargains? Think about it. It sets a dangerous precedent allowing judges to re-interpret existing laws beyond their own jurisprudence, for starters.

It also violates the principal of separation of church and state to allow Sharia Law to be implemented in to our penal codes in this country. It relegates women to being chattel, a practice which too many American women went through hell to put a stop to in the past two centuries. All of these “laws” were written for the benefit of men being in control of their spouses and daughters as if they were to be used merely to breed and keep them happy. If anyone thinks that this law will only be applied toward the members of the Muslim faith in this country, they had better think again. It will ultimately extend to all when judges of this faith get appointed to the judge’s benches around the nation. I ask the American people this. Do they really think if Muslim Extremists were to end up running our country that Hollywood celebrities who embrace homosexuality and women’s rights would be allowed to live under their rule? I don’t think so. If men will kill their own daughters for being too “American”, what makes these people think that they will stop with their own offspring? Please don’t come back and tell me the ones doing these acts are “extremists”. They aren’t when they first come here for citizenship. They come in suits, ties and are well dressed, and some of the women who are in this will also be well dressed for show and tell, to get women to think “Oh, this isn’t as bad as they say.” I guess that when this country is finally subjected to the forced marriages and (in extreme cases) the practice of Female Genital Mutilation, that people will finally wake up and see that this is more than a real threat. Don’t kid yourselves. They are wolves in sheep’s clothing. These are educated oppressors sent to accomplish one goal–to take the world for Allah by whatever means necessary even though their Quran CLEARLY states for them to not make war with anyone who doesn’t make war with them first. I know what the Quran says, because I’ve read it. If they cannot do it by gradually implementing Sharia Law, one can rest assured that they will take a lesson from Lenin and Stalin and start a war in due time.

If nothing else, women should be standing shoulder to shoulder, and toe to toe with the gay community in opposition to this implementation because it puts ALL of us at risk–and it doesn’t matter if one is gay, straight, celibate, or whatever. IF you are not a Muslim, you are an infidel.  Below is an absolute WORST case scenario:

Their goal will be to convert you if you are not a homosexual and to kill you if you are one. If you don’t believe that, then do your homework. Look at how Sharia Law handles such matters. As for heterosexuals, they will kill you (most likely) regardless–especially when they realize that you would rather die on your feet than to beg on your knees. In other words, in their eyes, if you do not submit to their so-called divine authority given by Allah, you will die anyway.  I realize this is a worst case scenario, but one must realize that this is the law that extremists are trying to enforce in other countries as we speak! 

I know many Christians do not want to hear the above statement, but it is my opinion. God loves homosexuals, and it is not my job to judge or condemn them, but I do feel that they will not turn to God if the god the church continues to show them offers no hope of redemption, but of condemnation. I have seen churches with people in them who do not show an example of Christ’s love, but of hatred. This is NOT godly behavior and he will not honor it. Judgment does begin with the house of God if the bible be true, and let’s just assume it is…That means the church gets theirs before the non-believers they failed to lead to the Lord are to be judged. I also feel that the bible says “Judge not lest ye be judged” for a reason. Think about it. Now back to my point about Sharia Law:

As Americans this is one issue we should all be united on. We should not be worried about whether we are being “sensitive to their religion” when it is a religion that seeks to conquer others and destroy their way of life. Given the supreme court rulings in 1962, I would say we are covered since the court at that time wasn’t sensitive to anyone else’s needs but Madeline Murray O’Hair’s.  That is fine.  So be it.  But they have NO right to try to allow subversive judges and attorneys to inject this form of religious law into our system NOW.  That ruling covered that.  It is unconstitutional and I really don’t think the atheists will put up with it either since AGAIN, it is now an issue of WOMENS’ RIGHTS–not Christian, Jew, Atheist or Hindu rights–but WOMENS’ RIGHTS FOR ALL WOMEN.  It is time we learned the lessons of what is going on in Britain and the rest of Europe. In 2012, we do have a chance to make this right. Not one more citizen’s murder should have to go unpunished because they are “too American”…If you aren’t American enough to go by our laws, go home. IF you didn’t want to be subject to AMERICAN LAW, you shouldn’t have become a citizen in the first place–again, go back.

If I were given the choice to be forced to live in communist China or live under this type of regime, which do you think I would pick? It wouldn’t be in a culture that wants to force me to marry someone I could not stand to be with or enslave me under a system of misogyny, that is for sure. In fact, I would rather be dead. It is possible that this will happen IN A WORST CASE SCENARIO. I shudder to think of what type of rule my grandchildren and nieces might be under in less than 20 years at this rate.

The people who are trying to accomplish this feat come from places that also sell their women to the highest bidder. Even if that bidder is a sex trafficker, they will sell their women in to fake marriages at young ages in order to force them into slavery. This is especially true in Iraq. Then if the women get away, they kill or imprison them for bringing shame to their families. If you don’t believe that, check it out.  There are links.  Why is government giving any aid to countries with such practices? I am of the opinion that by doing so, this government is complicit in the business of oppressing women worldwide. If it were up to me, all aid would be stopped where forced marriages and/or the selling of children and/or the practice FGM are allowed. I would then take that money that would have gone to those nations and put it toward paying off the deficit.

For the lack of action I see from the National Organization for Women, I would have NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM simply because I see nothing in the way of pursuing the rights of women as of late. Women must unite among themselves. Nobody is going to listen unless women become one united force–and believe me there are women of all faiths in this country that if they united under the cause of keeping women free in this country, the government would have no choice but to listen.

However, if Sharia law were instituted, you can rest assured that the subversive cultures within this country would try to revoke the right to vote for women–and that is when the real problems will begin. They will blame the female rape victims in court again for being raped, molested, etc…, rather than face the fact that each person must be held accountable for their own actions.

When we have video on Youtube of women fighting each other on a bus in front of their own children, it is used by the people of other countries to show how “out of control” we are as a nation because of our “freedoms”. They don’t address the fact that the women on the video are breaking the law because that would imply that if caught they would be properly punished. They are not mentioning that fact because that feeds into their propaganda machine about how western civilization and capitalism are evil.

The fact of the matter is, the way this country is allowed to conduct itself–glorifying socially unacceptable behavior, is why this country has become a laughing-stock. Discipline at all levels of society must be restored–starting with the home, then the school, then the counties, states and then our country as a whole. By not educating our children properly, we are feeding a beast that has run dangerously out of control. When will the people of America reunite and take back the schools and their cities from people who will sell the soul and it’s own females for the sake of conforming to a One World Order–which Islam right now is probably going to be running? Stop trade with nations who allow women’s rights to be trampled in such a manner–which would shut out the Middle East for the most part, and let them fend for their own. They do not deserve the aid of free nations. Oh my gosh! We would have to depend on our own oil and/or open up trade with South America–which would be a good thing.

Not all people of the Muslim faith allow for such practices on their women. These people should unite behind us and not allow these barbaric, inhumane creatures that dare to call themselves men exert control over anyone else. The mullahs and imams know that an uneducated population is a controllable one. Why do you think some of these men sell girls as young as two off? They know if women were educated, and if they were free, they would most likely NOT marry anyone chosen for them. They also know that the women outnumber them by far. I will let the reader think about that one. Here is the link referring to the cases in New York and in Arizona as well:

  http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2011/jan/28/no-safety-in-shariah/

I am of the opinion that the judge that made such an idiotic ruling betrayed every woman in this country and should be taken off of the bench. The Constitution never gave ANYONE in this country the right to “not be offended”…Where has common sense gone in this country that judges can get away with such incompetent actions on the bench? Any judge who tries to do this is sending American women down the river! If it were up to me, she would face charges of sedition AND treason.  Sedition for encouraging the radical Islamists with her ruling, and TREASON for betraying American women everywhere–including the victims of these crimes! It is time to stand up and make it known! If you are with me on this issue, email me! If not, don’t come crying to me when the stuff hit’s the fan! Women must do something NOW to get this information out!

Regardless of what one’s faith is, or the choice to be of no faith, it doesn’t matter.  Neither does your sexual preference. This threatens us all and we must never let ourselves be divided on an issue as vital as this. Our lives and the lives of our children and grandchildren depend upon that. Can we not unite for once to win this ONE cause?  Division has been a big problem when it comes to our own rights.  We can no longer afford to be divided.

The late president Abraham Lincoln knew the dangers a divided America would be. Our leaders need to be brought into the light of this fact again.  We cannot have two Americas–one system of law for one group and another for another group.  Ignorance of our law is no excuse to commit a crime.  Now we face a fight to wipe out another type of slavery–one that thrives on ignorance and fear.  It also thrives on the subjugation of all others to its own benefit.  If you do not understand what I am talking about, I suggest you take a good hard look at what is going on in Europe–especially since the UK has already tried being “sensitive” to this.  I am of the opinion that a worldwide cauldron is brewing and we must NOT allow ourselves to be thrown into it.

Some Things Should NOT be on a “Bucket List” at Certain Ages!

This question is one that nags at a certain woman who I have to deal with  on occasion.  Does anyone really make a “bucket list”?  That not so humble servant from the far side of someone else’s netherworld just had to ask…One thing was completed on hers as of the end of 2010–going ice skating, and she had the bruised ass to prove it…Here is a piece of friendly advice.  If you are a 40-something year old  broad whose dreams tend to land her on her ass so hard that you think it might break–skip the dream in question.  After all, it can happen to you now can’t it?

The evidentiary picture could mysteriously get posted on here, but it is not worth insulting the audience by letting it’s members view a blue moon–especially one that isn’t so attractive. Now if she had Cindy Crawford’s ass, she might reconsider that one.   The worst part about making the decision to do this is that the broad can’t even claim that she was drunk since she does not  normally drink anyway!  She did think about taking it up the next day, though.  It was definitely a struggle to get her battered and bruised body off of that friggin’ bed!  If she does take it up, it will NOT be in public, that’s for sure.

Now back to the bucket list.  Have you done anything on your list (if you have one) that you wish you could go back and UNdo?   Well, there is a way to do so–well, sort of…When you write about it, make out like some other crazy bonehead who looks just like you did it!  It can be said with certain accuracy that the broad I mentioned earlier wishes she could go back and undo her stupidity because she also put a strain on her hip-joint in the same fall!  She can also probably tell you that even childbirth didn’t bother her as much as sitting down for the next couple of weeks did!  Her legs went right out from under her and she landed right on her hip and tailbone! OUCH!  It hurts thinking about it.

If you think there MIGHT be something on your bucket list that might be a bit hazardous for you to be trying, the broad’s advice to you is to cross the damned thing off really fast!  If you don’t and decide to get stupid anyway, then make sure there isn’t some relative with a camera around to blackmail you with!  According to the broad’s kids, this is how she was positioned right before she hit the bloody ice:

She had a dangerously similar fall--and for once her family was right! She should have stayed the hell home!

 

And she will never, ever be so stupid as to try to do this crap again either! My hats go off to all the professional skaters (like the one above) who make it look soooooooooooo damned easy!

Embracing the Solitude

I tend to talk a lot about the mistake of investing all of one’s identity into a partner–but maybe the focus should be on something else.  Maybe that focus should be on embracing solitude.  That is right.  From my view, I think it is important to draw upon my own inner strength than to rely on the idea of having someone to lean on.   This could be for several reasons.  However, I feel that most of it is the fact that much of what I endured in life, I endured alone.  I didn’t even feel comfortable going to family with ANYTHING.  I am not used to having someone say, “Hey, I’m here for you.”  Seriously.  I don’t recall ever having that type of relationship with anyone.  I am referring to having such a close bond with a partner that I could totally rely on the strength of that relationship to carry me through any adversity that went on.

Am I the only one that has ever experienced this thought train?  I am used to having to take care of my own shit–not having emotional support through it and such, and ultimately, having  to claw my way back out of the graveyard of despair while forcing myself into the land of the living again…But wait!  That graveyard, at least, felt safe.  Since nobody could touch me within that crypt I built for myself, I did not have to fear the possibility of getting hurt again.  I never thought for one minute that that place would be almost like a prison of my own making.

My fear of people resulted in my reclusiveness.  The only ones who saw me were my family, and some of them tried to control what I did via emotional manipulation.  When I woke up to that fact and started fighting my way back, I never dreamed that the people closest to me would have so much opposition to my decisions.  I had to break away from the tribe a bit.  I learned that sometimes even family members do not realize that they are trying to put bars of their own around us sometimes. I will not now, and would not at that time let anyone else try to mold me into a carbon copy of themselves.  I do not cave to the “pecking order” among those around me–ever.  I never will.

My sons are grown now. I have a chance to see the world and experience different cultures.  I fully intend to do so.  The time is now!  This time is mine and I can do all of this now since I have learned to embrace my solitude.  I will admit that  it would be nice to have a boyfriend or significant other–so long as he doesn’t try to cage me.  Trying to cage me, especially since the second marriage, only makes me run like a bloody damned gazelle!  This is especially true for guys who think they “possess the woman” after only dating for 2-3 months.  They’ll get dropped like a bad habit. 

Do men go through this crap too?  Just wondering…